As a Forty Plusser I know that boundaries are a form of empowerment, and a way for us to align with our identity, our desires, and where we stand in the world. When you don’t have boundaries, you are sending out a signal that you don’t know what you want, that you’ll take whatever you can get, and that you won’t put up a fight along the way.

When you don’t have boundaries, you feel like you are constantly living in a “doormat” mentality. Setting boundaries is a form of self-respect and self-love, it is not a punishment for others.
By respecting yourself enough to set the necessary boundaries in your life, you’ll discover a unique sense of freedom and peace of mind.
Make a promise to yourself to get in touch with your needed boundaries and practice enforcing them. ❤️

Absolutely!!!! It is much easier as a Forty Plusser to set boundaries.  I found it hard to set boundaries when I was young. I can say “no” now… with ease LOL!!  I have my boundaries for my emotional and mental well being, as well as physical, so if someone crosses one of my boundaries they get removed. I have often unfriended people for this exact reason.  

There is also another side of the story… Unless you’re the one removed.  It’s sometimes nice to be forgiven and get a second chance.

Leave a Reply

Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in: Logo

You are commenting using your account. Log Out /  Change )

Google photo

You are commenting using your Google account. Log Out /  Change )

Twitter picture

You are commenting using your Twitter account. Log Out /  Change )

Facebook photo

You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log Out /  Change )

Connecting to %s


Random things are random

Marcy Goes Wild

Unofficial World Record Holder interviewing DJ's about their first gig

Photography and Travel


Best PPE products

RaduH's Blog

Life with kids and tech. Everybody likes a good story.

Photos by Jez

Taking the camera for a walk!!!

%d bloggers like this:
search previous next tag category expand menu location phone mail time cart zoom edit close