“You are responsible for everything that happens to you. You either cause it or allow it to happen.” “It is a painful thing to look at the sorrows in your life and know that you yourself are the one responsible for them.” “You and only you are responsible for your life choices and decisions.”
Forty Something Life As We Know It 
Agree with you.but sometimes our choices are dictated by various other factors like the well being of our loved ones..
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